How to Influence the World
Many years ago when Head Start first began, our church hosted a Head Start program in our basement. Every morning parents would drop off their little ones for the morning program. There were games, nap time, breakfast and snacks, story time and we initiated a time for Pastor Dave. Several mornings a week I took my guitar and went down stairs to sing to this group of kids all sitting in a circle.
I was thinking of the influences that the church has had over the years, when this came up. Years before this, I had my first funeral. It was a man who had been excommunicated from his church, but his family wanted a Christian burial. This church often said, “Give us a child until he or she is five and they will be a part of the church for the rest of their lives.” This was true in the life of this man’s family, and I suspect that it was the case of the several children that went through our Head Start program. It would be interesting to see if that were the case.
To understand this next little story, you have to realize that it was the times (early 70’s) when pastors were someone called Reverend. I always preferred Pastor Dave to Rev. Kellin, and I let people know of my wish, even these little kids. One day, while we were downtown in this little village, one of the kids spotted me and spoke. “Hi, Dave.” Mother’s expressions dropped to sheer terror. Her child had committed the worst possible social misstep. I spoke back from a crouched position, called the child by name. They probably don’t remember the occasion, and we who are older remember the darnest things, so I remember this. I would hope that I and the church had made such a good impression that the child would not leave the faith, but would return if they had.
Some years ago the story is told of a dying man, in somewhat present time. He was going to surgery for what looked like a life or death experience. He had been excommunicated from the church some years before, and was not happy with the church and it social stance in some arenas. Nevertheless, as they entered the surgery suite, he was seen making the sign of the cross. This was perhaps his last earthly act, for in spite of what had happened over the years, his faith, learned as a child, was holding him steady.
Little children, so cute, and so much a headache, particularly when “kids will be kids” actions happen. The head start program was dropped by our church a year or two before I moved. I wonder if we missed an opportunity to introduce a generation to our building and to our Savior. Next time you see a kid, remember, they are reading you like a book, and your smile might be the kind act that is remembered for a life time. Pastor Dave.